If you have answers that doesn’t mean you should answer everybody’s question. Some people do not want any answers they just want to stay stuck. Perks of having a growth mindset is that you can acquire a great deal of knowledge by learning continuously. Which in turn means that for most of the time you have something to say in almost every discussion.
I am home, we have discussions, a lot of them because we love to discuss. You can find people discussing an issue or a problem in a shop, at home, and on the roadside. But most discussions go nowhere, there is no agenda, just plain discussions. They do not understand that a discussion should lead to something, they have a lot of time, or at least they think they do.
You can’t convince anyone who doesn’t want to be convinced. They are closed to new ideas, new possibilities, opening them up requires a great deal of energy. They don’t want solutions they just like to discuss.